Brekov Castle

Ahoj!

Ako sa máš? (How are you?)

Welcome to the story of the workcamp in Brekov. Meet the participants: Cynthia, David, Caroline and Thomas from Mexico, Taiwan, France and Germany. And then there’s me, the sole leader of the camp. 😛

 

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Castle festival where medieval fighting techniques were displayed.

Work

On the way to work

We went to work quite early every morning, around 7. In some mornings, there was fog everywhere and it was so beautiful! The most amazing was the view from the castle when some of the fog had faded away and there were these clouds that looked like cotton candy.

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Every morning they were waiting for us to pass, staring way too eagerly.
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One day after work we went to pick mushrooms and had them for lunch (not me, I don’t like mushrooms! :D).

Work

We were helping with digging up an archaeological site at the castle. There were a lot of stones and dirt we had to pile up or transport somewhere else, for example onto the road to fill the holes in it. Sometimes we were lucky and found some pieces of ceramics and bones among all the sand and rocks.

Archaeological findings

Breaks

Sometimes we were just chilling… In the second week, there was a break with singing. 🙂 And of course petting the village dog and during lunch breaks drinking coffee and eating sandwiches that we had prepared in the morning.

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The workers fed us well during lunch breaks. A lot of meat, a lot of sausages. These in particular were filled with rice and some meat I think.

Trips & Free Time

There were a lot of opportunities to explore around the area. Stano, the local partner, knows what he’s doing, he had an amazing programme for us so we went somewhere almost every day.

Strázske

We walked along the riverside to Strázske, had a beer, ate some sausages and came back. In Strázske, there is also an amazing ice cream place. I forgot the name but there was a picture of Marilyn Monroe on the house. (Edit: Google says the place is called Cambera).

Humenné

It was supposed to rain on the second working day so instead we went to explore Humenné. There were two museums, one indoors and one outside. Apparently I didn’t take any photos in the first one but it looked like a manor house and used to be a castle before it was rebuilt.

Open air museum

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Befriending a mushroom

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At the train station

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Švejk

Thermalpark Šírava

The first Friday evening was reserved for a hike but then the weather started playing tricks on us. We needed to rearrange the plans a little bit. Instead, we went to a waterpark with thermal pools. Stano and both of his sons also joined us, we took two cars and rolled to Zemplínska Šírava. After the thermalpark, we explored a nearby night market a little bit before coming back home.

Jasenov Castle / Laundry Day

On Saturday, some of us wanted to rest and some of us wanted to hike and explore. So everyone did what they wished to do and in the evening we all went to see the performances in the Brekov cultural house.

Brekov Village Days

Poloniny National Park

On Sunday evening, we wanted to go to see the stars at night at the dark-sky park. Before that, we explored the drinkable water reservoir in Starina and two wooden churches in Topoľa and Uličské Krivé. At the last stop, there was a little bar where we ordered some Kofola, some of us more than others :D. I could practice my broken Slovak because of course nobody spoke English. We got what we ordered so I guess I did alright.

Wooden churches

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We wanted to go to the dark-sky park but it was too stormy.
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Instead, we went to see the Ukrainian border.
Čičva Castle
On Monday, after work, there was another castle to explore…
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…after the exploration, we treated ourselves in the nearby restaurant. We stayed there for a while and played some card games.

Visit to the local vineyard

I have to be honest, this was a pleasant surprise for me. Since the weather forecast wasn’t promising anything better for the following nights, we had to give up or at least postpone the plan of seeing the stars. And then Stano proposed to go wine tasting! Amazing! :3

The wines were all natural and didn’t have the chemicals in them that shop wines do. I wish I’d bought some bottles to bring with but I missed the right moment to order some. Ah.. But such lovely atmosphere and memories!

Hike to Morské Oko & Sninský kameň

I was talking about this day in my previous blog. It was all worth the effort, the photos speak for themselves.

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It’s only the beginning and I’m already sweating, haha.
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When you have no one to take the group photo so you use timer and run on the photo
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For a moment, I thought we had reached THE stone. But no.. This was just a tiny one compared to Sninský kameň.

Morské Oko

There was a buffet next to the lake so we stopped for lunch, gathered some new strength and off we went again.

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“Take a photo of me with this beautiful scenery”

Sninský kameň

There was a point when some of us decided to go back down. I hesitated but finally decided to go and conquer the final tip.

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I was so proud that I made it!

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Next morning, I was so weak that I felt quite ill. I went to work with the others but soon came back. I think it was a good decision not to strain myself more. I cleaned up the house a bit, had a shower and started to prepare the place for the evening.

Feast of Cultures

On the second Thursday, on August 1, we had the feast of cultures. Some of the workers came, we shared the food, songs, dances… The atmosphere of the night was elevating and warm. Authentic.

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Final day at work

We worked a little bit, less than on other days. Then we started preparing the goulash that the workers cooked for us. Yum yum yum!

Goulash

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Us with the lovely workers – like a big family!

By the end of the camp we had established a very special connection with the workers. We didn’t speak the same language at the beginning yet managed to communicate and learn something from each other. Sharing food, songs and dances during the two weeks really created a special bond. 🙂

I’m thinking of going back to Brekov in September to help to pick grapes in the vineyard. I’ll see how things work out but it would be lovely to see the workers as well as Stano and his family once again.

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Košice

I’ll add this to the post even though it’s not exactly anymore a part of the camp. The final day, bye-byes…

Caroline, Thomas and David left earlier by Thomas’s car, Cynthia and I followed a couple of hours later by train but we all ended up in Košice. I managed to get a glimpse of Caroline and Thomas just before they headed to the airport. David had a bit more time so we went for a lunch and I introduced halušky to him. Later I explored the town alone for a little bit before it was also time for me to leave.

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I arrived to Bratislava around 22, took all my stuff and dragged it home. I almost lost my sleeping bag on the way, it fell under the train :D. Luckily, there was a nice man who saved it for me. I was probably looking very sad and tired, maybe he felt sorry for me. I reached home, I survived.

Ooh, and there it is! Many great experiences, lot’s of amazing memories!

Until the next time!

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Reflection After the Camps

Hi! Ahoj! Dobrý deň!

It’s already the seventh month of my EVS. How come is the time going so fast? I know I keep saying it almost in every post but it’s true.

I was just scrolling the photos on my phone back to February. It’s bittersweet to look back and see how far I’ve come. I remember January when I was so content with myself. I thought I knew everything, I thought I was complete. Haha. Good joke. There’s always room for development.

Isn’t it funny that the moments that improve us the most are the most uncomfortable and frightening? I guess that’s the reason I chose to go for an EVS. I was too much in my comfort zone. I wanted excitement and new experiences, I needed questioning and confrontation.

After the two camps in Zlatna na Ostrove and Brekov, I can honestly say that I got what I needed. I was like fish out of the water, especially in Brekov. Leading the camps is so different from participating in them. It was less about connections and wonderful moments, even though perhaps that’s what I wished for, and more about

handling situations,

making decisions under pressure or stress,

taking the lead,

learning to let go,

understanding my limits,

pushing my limits,

learning to be more patient,

figuring out what’s important to me and to others and what isn’t,

managing expectations, time, cultural differences,

setting boundaries,

understanding what respect means to different people…

The list could easily go on and on.

I learned a lot about myself. I realised I’m more introverted than I wanted to believe I was. The reason I didn’t realise it sooner is probably that before I was given plenty of space to be on my own. Now that I was put into the role where I was responsible for other people and I needed to be available to them at all times in case of an emergency, I didn’t really enjoy it. Was it because I really needed the space to go and be just by myself? Or was it because that’s not what I was used to, because my comfort zone was being “intruded”? Maybe it was a mix of both.

I remember being tired a lot and feeling guilty because I didn’t have the energy to cheer people up, to keep good vibes going. I sensed when something was off yet felt crippled by the fact that I didn’t know how to change it. I don’t have that “thing” in me that some people do and that I admire. I can have fun but I struggle a lot to be the initiator of fun. I don’t know why. Is it just my personality or are there ways to change it? My question to myself is: should I accept this part of myself or should I improve it? I really don’t know at this point. Maybe I will figure it out later.

One thing that I did figure out (I think, I hope) was that I need to explain myself more. I see it now. It stems back to when I had trouble at primary school with maths because I didn’t understand why I need to write out every single step of the calculations. I saw the final result and it was clear to me. Apparently not to the teacher. Several years later, now just a few years ago, I remember the notes of my supervisors when I was writing both my BA and MA theses. “Explain more,” they said. “Write it out more clearly.”

I tend to get ahead of myself, sometimes my thoughts move at the speed of light and I come to a conclusion which makes the most sense to me. However, I understand now that when I don’t fill in people outside of my head about how and why I came to the conclusion, they might see me as stubborn and inflexible. Once I have my conclusion or decision, it’s difficult for me to see alternative solutions. It doesn’t mean that I won’t accept any other way, just that I have one idea very clearly in my head and I kind of get tunnel vision in terms of any other ideas.

So, what to do about this issue? I can alert others about it and explain that I don’t mean any harm and I’m honestly open to other solutions, I just need time to understand why the alternatives are good or better. I can be more aware and train myself to shed light on my thought process about the conclusion. I can also train myself to be more patient and find a sincere motivation why I should explain more. This thing, seeming to be stubborn, is surely something I can work on.

What else? In Brekov, I really pushed myself physically. I’m not the fittest of them all. Every day walking up the hill for half an hour to get to the castle was an enormous challenge. In the second week, we went for a 7-hour hike. I’m so happy that I pushed myself but also the next day I was dead. My body wasn’t so happy. 😀 I know now that I can do it if I want have to. I knew before already that for these kind of challenges I need an external motivation. On my own, I’m lacking willpower, I’m too easy on myself and the mentality of “tomorrow” kicks in way too easily. Maybe this will be the next thing to  tackle. Or maybe I just need to outsmart myself and trick myself into doing sports so I don’t even realise that I’m making an effort? I don’t know… Do you have any advice for that?

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In other news, I’m going to my mid-term training on Thursday. I finally got the invitation just before leaving for Brekov. Since it’s another group than I was originally assigned to, I’m a little bit apprehensive whether they will accept me. They already know each other. I really hope it will be a fun time exploring yet again another part of Slovakia. The training is in Terchová, in the North Middle part of Slovakia. Fingers crossed!

 

I’ll be back soon with a big bunch of photos from the Brekov camp.

Until then!